without friends, can we get a new experience?
without friends, can we against the world alone?
without friends, can we know what's the meaning of truly friendship ?
because, friends are half of our heart. we can't live without friends :)
true friendship is like an 'eight' number. it's curving, but never ends :)
reasons why bestfriend position is higher than boyfriend/girlfriend.
FRIENDS were made to accompany u. are u remember when u was a kid ? when u get in u'r first school ?
u meet many people that u haven't meet before, then u introduce each other then go to play together, what do u call it ? yes, it FRIENDS :) not boyfriend/girlfriend.
so. when u reach u'r puberty time, u start to know 'like/love the opposite sex' and u going out with him/her, u call it 'dating'. then, i want to invite u to think *imagine that u're in a relationship right now*:
#1. the first time u fall in love with someone, with whom u tell the person that u love ? of course to your friends. parents may be, but mostly teenagers like to tell his/her secret to their bestfriend.
#2. then if u already going out with him/her, to whom u tell a story of your first date ? yes, the answer is your bestfriend again.
#3. when someday you have a little fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend, to whom u share u'r feeling? it's bestfriend again ! maybe u'll tell your feeling till you cryin out loud, but u'r bestfriend still want to hear you, and even giving u some solution for it.
#4. then, when you're in a dating, then u invite u're bestfriend to come, will you share your time with your bestfriend? or with your boyfriend/girlfriend? mostly 'in a relationship teenagers' said: my boyfriend/girlfriend. i want u to imagine if you were in your bestfriend position, what would u feel? maybe u'll think: u just come to me if u need me! do you want to hear that sentence from your bestfriend lips? of course not ! it just can make your relationship between u and u'r bestfriend broken ! so, just fair of it.
#5 when you've broken up with u'r boyfriend/girlfriend, of course you'll feel so bad and sad. to whom you share your feelin with? of course, bestfriend again ! but he/she still want to hear you, still beside you and cheer u up, they'll do everything just to make u laugh/happy :D
so, it's simple. just remember that bestfriend are always beside u whenever u need them, and they're never tired or bored to hear you. but having bestfriends aren't mean that u don't have boyfriend/girlfriend. act normally, having bestfriends and boyfriend/girlfriend too, but keep fair with it, keep you bestfriend position higher than boyfriend/girlfriend position, and remember! boyfriend/girlfriend won't always beside u whenever u need them. just bestfriends do :)
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